Weddings are full of meaningful moments and a surprising number of unwritten rules. One question that often catches couples off guard is: who gets a gift at a wedding?
Between traditions, expectations, and personal touches, it’s easy to feel unsure about who to include (and what’s actually necessary).
The good news? It doesn’t have to be complicated. This guide walks you through exactly who you give gifts to on your wedding day.
And, there’s a complete wedding gift list you can download at the end, so nothing gets missed.
Who Do You Give Gifts to on Your Wedding Day?
If you’re wondering who gets a gift at a wedding, the answer usually includes the people who’ve supported you most throughout the journey.
Bridal Party (Bridesmaids & Groomsmen)
Your bridal party has likely been there through planning, fittings, and emotional moments. Bridal gifting is a way to say thank you for their time, effort, and presence.
Parents of the Bride & Groom
Parents often play a huge role; emotionally, practically, and sometimes financially. A thoughtful gift is a meaningful way to acknowledge their support.
Maid of Honour & Best Man
While they’re part of the bridal party, many couples choose to give something extra to their maid of honour or best man to recognise their added responsibilities.
Flower Girls & Page Boys
These little VIPs bring charm to your day. A sma
ll, sweet gift helps them feel included and celebrated.
Optional: Vendors & Celebrant
Not essential, but some couples like to offer a small token of appreciation to key vendors or their celebrant, especially if they’ve gone above and beyond.
Wedding Gift Etiquette Explained
Understanding wedding gift etiquette can take a lot of pressure off your decisions.
Is it expected to give gifts?
While not strictly required, giving gifts is a long-standing tradition. It’s less about obligation and more about appreciation.
When are gifts given?
Most gifts are given either on the morning of the wedding, during the rehearsal dinner, or privately before the ceremony. Timing is flexible; choose what feels natural.
Do both partners give gifts?
Typically, yes. Each partner gives gifts to their own party, though couples often collaborate on gifts for parents or shared roles.
Are gifts different from favours?
Yes, this is where confusion often happens.
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Wedding favours are small tokens for all guests.
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Wedding gifts are personal and given to specific people involved in the wedding.
How much should you spend on wedding gifts?
It’s really up to you. Wedding gifting is far more about meaning than cost. If you feel like treating your loved ones, our collection of gifts under £100 offers a more elevated option. If you’re being more budget-conscious, our gifts under £60 still carry the same thoughtful feel, just in a simpler way.
The Best Wedding Gift Ideas for Each Recipient
Choosing the right gift doesn’t have to be complicated; simple, thoughtful pieces often feel the most meaningful.
Bridesmaids: Matching Jewellery Sets
Thoughtful pieces they can wear on the day, like matching jewellery sets or personalised accessories, feel especially meaningful. For an effortlessly styled look, explore our bridesmaid jewellery collection or mix and match from our most popular gifts.
Best Man: Engraved Jewellery
A modern take on a classic gift. Engraved bracelets, watches or cufflinks feel refined and practical, a gift for him that he can wear long after the wedding.
Mother of the Bride: Photo Jewellery
For the mother of the bride, it’s all about cherishing shared memories.
A photo locket with a meaningful moment inside makes a deeply personal keepsake. If you’re looking for something more style-led, our gifts for mum collection offers pieces suited to every kind of mum.
Flower Girl: Matching Minis
Think smaller versions of bridal accessories, designed to make her feel part of the moment. Our children's jewellery edit includes thoughtful pieces perfect for younger members of your wedding party.
Your Complete Wedding Gift List (Free Download)
To make things easier, we’ve created a complete wedding gift list you can download and use throughout your planning.
Inside, you’ll find:
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A clear breakdown of who to buy gifts for
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Simple budgeting notes to help you plan without overspending
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A checklist so nothing gets forgotten!
It’s designed to take the guesswork out of wedding gift etiquette, so you can focus on choosing wedding gift ideas that feel personal and genuinely appreciated.
And if you’re short on time, our ready-to-gift pieces make it easy to find something meaningful in time.
Need help with every part of your wedding planning? Check out our complete wedding planning guide with a downloadable checklist.